Anyones husband become jealous after they got breast augmentation?
Posted by: admin on February 9th, 2010
Posted: before after augmentation
I recently went from a 34B to a 34D and now my husband suddenly wants to go everywhere with me and criticizes everything I wear. He was never like this before and it is starting to cause problems. Anyone gone through this? Any advice? No lectures please.
Sorry to say, that he’s worried that everyone else will be oggling the twins, not just him….I’m sure he was okay about it when you discussed getting bigger jugs. Now he’s worried you’ll jump ship for someone better.
Good luck. All you can do is reassure him he’s the one.
Insecure fellow you have there.
Tell him to grow up.
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Posted on February 9th, 2010 at 4:23 pm
Well I don’t suppose we need to tell you then that getting breasts immediately creates unwanted attention? Of course he’s insecure, he knows that not only are they his breast but every man is going to do whatever it takes to see them. All you can do is assure him he can trust you.
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Posted on February 9th, 2010 at 4:54 pm
um duh, i think the answer is obvious.
you have bigger boobs of corse hes going to be up your butt
if hes doing this you prob gave him a reason to be
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Posted on February 9th, 2010 at 5:12 pm
Sorry to say, that he’s worried that everyone else will be oggling the twins, not just him….I’m sure he was okay about it when you discussed getting bigger jugs. Now he’s worried you’ll jump ship for someone better.
Good luck. All you can do is reassure him he’s the one.
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Posted on February 9th, 2010 at 5:34 pm
I had a breast reduction 36 H down to a 36 C, my ex had a cow once I started wearing nice clothes and stuff. It boosted my self confidence and he started critizing everything I did after that. He was scared that I was going to leave or someone was going to "steal" me because I was good looking then.
If I’d have had a desire to stay with him the I’d have showed my affection toward him and worn sexy clothes in the bedroom to show him how much he could "enjoy" the new boobies. I didn’t want to stay with him so I used my new self confidence to my advantage and walked away.
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Posted on February 9th, 2010 at 5:40 pm
It has never been easier, or more tempting, to have cosmetic surgery and other beauty-enhancing procedures than now. More cosmetic surgeons and "esthetic" dentists are setting up shop as baby boomers are looking longer in the mirror and seeing sags, wrinkles and discolored teeth.
New lasers and other technologies keep coming out with the promise of better results. And money is no longer an obstacle. Can’t afford to pay $9,000 for liposuction or $5,000 for an eyelid lift? No problem. Finance companies offering to lend you the money in as little as 24 hours are advertising on television, radio and the Internet. As one advertisement on the Web proposes, "Why wait?"
Industry figures indicate that fewer people are waiting and that most of them are women. The number of liposuction operations, the most popular form of cosmetic surgery, increased 215 percent to 149,042 from 47,212 between 1992 and 1997, according to the latest statistics from the American Academy of Plastic and Reconstructive Surgeons in Arlington Heights, Ill. More breast enlargements, eyelid lifts and face lifts are also being done. Indeed, plastic surgeons performed 32,607 breast augmentations in 1992; five years later, they did 122,285. The higher numbers reflect the fact that cosmetic surgery is more acceptable and that people feel more pressured to look good and age well.
Esthetic dentistry, which includes tooth bleaching and bonding (closing gaps between teeth and fixing chipped ones, generally), is the fastest-growing field in the dental profession now that fluoride has made cavities relatively rare and people are ever-more obsessed about appearance, said Dr. Irwin Smigel, the president of the New York-based American Society for Dental Aesthetics.
But many doctors say that the risk of complications is also rising as record numbers of doctors and patients enter an essentially unregulated field. "There’s a whole influx of folks into cosmetic surgery with a whole variety of backgrounds, some with just a weekend course," said Dr. Dennis Lynch, the president of the American Academy of Plastic and Reconstructive Surgeons. "Some of these physicians may not even have a background in surgery." And they don’t have to be certified by the state or any medical board to do this surgery.
Dr. Lynch said that doctors are attracted to cosmetic surgery because it is more lucrative than many other areas of medicine. "This is not something that insurance reimburses, so there’s cash up front, without restrictions from managed care," he said. T HERE are no national or statewide statistics on complications and deaths from esthetic procedures. But since last fall, Dr. Lynch has heard of 13 patients around the United States who have died from liposuction. By contrast, he said, he knew of just four or five such deaths in the three years before last fall.
"Frequently the deaths involved surgeons misjudging what patients can handle," he said, by taking out too much fat during liposuction and doing a face lift simultaneously or operating on patients with health problems that make the surgery high risk. "There may be other deaths. This information tends to be concealed in legal actions."
Established cosmetic surgeons and esthetic dentists say that more patients are asking them to fix complications from procedures performed by other doctors: impaired vision and even blindness from damage incurred during eyelid lifts; eyelids that don’t close completely because too much skin was removed from the lower lid to eliminate bags; internal injuries from liposuction; permanent skin discoloration from laser treatment of wrinkles.
Some patients have such severe laser burns that they need skin grafts, said Richard L. Anderson, the chief of the division of occuloplastic and facial cosmetic surgery at the University of Utah School of Medicine in Salt Lake City. "We’re seeing more complications," said Dr. Anderson, speaking of himself and his colleagues. "Ten years ago, 5 percent of my practice was in taking care of complications. Now it’s 10 to 15 percent."
Poorly done esthetic dentistry can ruin a person’s smile by making it look unnatural, Dr. Smigel, the esthetic dentist, said, adding, "At least 25 percent of the work I do is redoing cases." He recently treated a young woman whose family dentist had applied porcelain veneers, the most popular type of tooth bonding. "The veneers were overbuilt and overwhite," Dr. Smigel said. "Her teeth looked false."
Doctors say the need for this repair work is partly linked to the lack of licensing and regulation in the field. Unlike, say, heart surgery, which can be performed only by board-certified cardiologists under state laws, cosmetic surgery can be performed by any licensed doctor. Any dentist can bleach or bond teeth. And since esthetic procedures are usually performed in doctors’ offices, those doctors do not need to be affiliated with hospitals, which places them outside professional peer reviews.
Compounding the risks, doctors say, is that new technology and techniques are appearing with record speed and heralded with more aggressive publicity. "Everything happens so much faster now, and evaluation of new procedures and instruments is difficult," said Dr. Gerald H. Pitman, a plastic surgeon in Manhattan and the author of a textbook on liposuction.
Linda Rosier for The New York Times
Plastic surgeons performed 52 percent more face lifts last year than in 1992; the number of breast enlargements increased even faster.
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Because these procedures are often rushed to the market without clinical trials, problems usually come to light after the work is done. One example is ultrasonic liposuction, introduced in the United States about two years ago. "When it came down the pike it was touted as the greatest thing since sliced bread by manufacturers who wanted doctors to buy their very expensive $30,000 or $40,000 machines" needed to do the procedure, said Dr. Pitman.
"I had manufacturers offer to give me a machine because they wanted my imprimatur."
Unlike conventional liposuction, in which fat is vacuumed from parts of the body through a hollow tube, ultrasonic liposuction uses a rapidly vibrating probe to first liquefy the fat so that greater volumes can be removed. "The problem is the probe also breaks up fibrous tissue, and it can liquefy skin," causing internal tissue damage and scarring, Dr. Pitman said.
"The longer you leave the probe in, the more fat you’re going to liquefy, the more scarring you’re going to have," he said. "It’s a judgment issue: how long do you leave the probe in and stimulate tissue?"
Recognizing quickly that ultrasonic liposuction had more potential to cause complications, the Academy of Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery began offering a one-day course last year involving lectures and practicing on cadavers and culminating with a certificate.
But a patient’s best hedge against complications and poor results is to choose an experienced, well-qualified doctor. "You don’t do that by looking on the Web," Dr. Pitman said, referring to the hundreds of doctors who publicize their practices on Internet home pages. He suggested that people begin by obtaining the names of doctors from friends who are satisfied with their work. "If you get a name, ask physicians you know to check up on the person," he said. "Or ask your own doctors for names of plastic surgeons." D OCTORS tend to specialize in, say, liposuction or face lifts, so people should look for someone whose expertise lies in the procedure being considered, Dr. Lynch noted.
The doctor should be board-certified in plastic surgery or another specialty that involves esthetic procedures, he added. The field of expertise should be accepted by the American Board of Medical Specialties, the organization that sets standards for specialized medical training and practice. These specialties include plastic surgery, which comprises cosmetic surgery like liposuction and face lifts; reconstructive surgery to repair damage from accidents or diseases; ophthalmology for eyelid lifts; ear, nose and throat surgery for face lifts and rhinoplasty, and dermatology for collagen injections and similar wrinkle treatments.
The cosmetic surgery board is not a member of the American Board of Medical Specialties, which makes a board-certified cosmetic surgeon akin to an unaccredited university, said Dr. Steven Miller, the American board’s executive vice president.
Dr. Richard Dolsky, a past president of the American Academy of Cosmetic Surgery, takes issue with that view, saying that board-certified cosmetic surgeons are well trained in cosmetic procedures. Many are also board-certified in member specialties, like plastic surgery or dermatology, he said.
When evaluating doctors, it is important to ask whether they have privileges at a hospital, Dr. Lynch said, adding, "That means that they have to meet standards set by the hospital, even if they do most of their surgery in their own offices." He noted that the doctor’s operating suite should be accredited and evaluated by an organization like the American Association for the Accreditation of Ambulatory Facilities or the Joint Commission on the Accreditation of Health Care Organizations.
Accreditation means that an outpatient clinic meets certain standards, like being equipped to handle an emergency if surgery goes wrong.
But accreditation of all out-patient operating rooms is mandatory in just nine states, including New Jersey, California, Maryland and Pennsylvania. (It is pending in
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Oh sorry…I missed the part where you wrote "no lecture’s please"
Posted on February 9th, 2010 at 5:45 pm
re assure him that you are there with him and that you love him he is your husband and that you married him and not someone.
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Posted on February 9th, 2010 at 6:27 pm
Sounds like he wants his own boob job. He’s jealous baby - yeah! Does that make you randy?
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Posted on February 9th, 2010 at 7:16 pm